If you’re feeling stuck in the background, it’s time to change that! It’s time to push your needs to the front and work towards fulfilling them. Empower yourself, build confidence and use these main character energy affirmations to do just that.
Prioritizing yourself is a great act of self love and kindness. It is beautiful to give yourself the positive energy you freely share with those around you. You deserve your own spotlight too!
If you are a fan of affirmations, check out these for releasing negative energy, beauty affirmations and these for self compassion.
Main character energy affirmations
- I don’t chase I attract everything that is meant for me to me.
- I am protected by the positive energy of the universe. It has my back, always.
- I choose to protect my energy by surrounding myself with a caring, supportive community who lift each other up.
- Toxic energy has no place in my orbit.
- I decide who has access to my energy.
- I refuse to shrink myself for anyone.
- My boundaries are strong and resilient. They allow positivity in and keep out negative energy.
- Self care is the greatest gift I can give myself and my loved ones. A happy me influences their happiness and their energy.
- I am a magnet for kind, empathetic people.
- I exude main character energy with my confidence and grace.
Main character affirmations
- I’m the main character in my story and I’m the writer. I choose what happens in my life.
- I have the power to prioritize my needs and meet them.
- I decide what is important to me. No one else.
- Today is a great day to live my best life.
- I embrace all of my power and I am determined to achieve my full potential.
- I am worthy of the very best that life has to offer.
- I am a true force of nature, unstoppable, and brave.
- I believe I’m the main character. (If I don’t, no one else will believe it!)
- My joy is just as important as everyone else’s.
- I am empowered to live an authentic, fulfilled life.
How to be the main character of your life
Who is the main character in your life now?
If you don’t feel like you are the main character in your life, who holds that position? Is it a child, a spouse, a parent, a boss, or a dominating friend?
Why do you feel they are the main character and not you in your own story? If you’re a new mom and the answer is your kid, that’s perfectly normal and you can hop on over to the next section. If it is someone else, why do you feel like this? Is it comparison or limiting beliefs? Or lack of self confidence?
Dig deep into these answers and explore if the relationships you have are mutually beneficial to you. Or figure out if there are some toxic, manipulative or even abusive aspects.
This thought experiment has to be done with a whole lot of self compassion, empathy and patience. It can feel really vulnerable to look at your life. But, taking a hard look at your relationships can act as a great guide on what to do next to make things better.
Accept yourself as the center
If you’ve been conditioned to meet the needs of others first, it can be really difficult centering yourself, even in your own mind. Unlearning this conditioning can take a long time to do but being aware of it is a great first step.
Every time you find yourself putting everyone’s needs ahead of yours, pause and ask yourself what do you need in this moment. Chances are you can meet your needs just as easily as you can meet everyone else’s and you’ll be happier for it.
You might feel pangs of guilt when you put yourself first. But, think about this: happy moms positively influence the happiness and success of their kids.
So, feeling happy, satisfied and fulfilled will likely improve the wellbeing of those closest to you.
Become the person you want to be
If you want to develop a main character mindset, check out my post on how to become the person you want to be. It’s an in-depth guide to figuring out who you want to be, why, the differences between you now and this idealized version, what obstacles may show up and more.
You can also find great questions in the article that can help you create a plan to become the main character. There are lots of tips in there so I hope you check it out.
As for these main character energy affirmations, working on becoming the main character takes time but that’s all part of the beautiful journey of life. If no one has told you this yet, I’m really proud of you and your desire to fill your own bucket and make yourself a priority too.
You deserve the world!
I have a bunch more affirmations if you want to go exploring on the blog.
